If there’s one thing every woman needs to learn at some point, it’s how to flirt with a guy over text without being obvious. Seriously, guys say they’re not complicated but we all know that’s far from the truth. So luckily you’re about to find out how to perfect your flirtatious banter.
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How To Get To Know Someone Over Text
Before you start really laying it on your crush, you might want figure out how to get to know someone over text first. Unless you don’t use a cell phone, these tips will help you out!
Flirty Conversation Starters
You can easily use flirty conversation starters to get to know someone better over text. All you have to do is ask him a few flirtatious questions that will definitely get the ball rolling. One of my favorite questions to ask is “if we were together right now, what would we be doing?” This question lets the guy take the conversation in the direction he feels most comfortable with, and lets you gauge what flirty things to say next. If he responds with playful banter, you’ll know you can too!
Flirty conversation starters like asking him what his ideal first date is both innocently flirty and subtle. Plus you’ll learn a lot about him based on his answer. Let’s be real, the cute guy who would plan a picnic date is probably not the same guy who’s just trying to Netflix and chill.
Keep The Conversation Going
The hardest thing about getting to know someone over text is figuring out how to keep the conversation going. Until you know your crush better, it’s going to take some effort to make sure your conversations don’t fizzle, especially if you’re trying long distance.
Asking him open-ended questions about his life, work, or hobbies is an easy way to learn something about him and will most likely make you want to ask follow up questions. Who doesn’t love talking about themselves? These kinds of conversations tend to open up natural opportunities to throw him a compliment or a smooth flirty text! It’s such an easy way to flirt over text without being obvious!
How To Flirt Over Text Without Coming On Too Strong
You know how things over text can commonly get misconstrued? That’s exactly why it’s important to learn how to flirt over text without coming on too strong.
Subtly Flirt Over Text
If you want to subtly flirt over text, one of the best ways is to simply use emojis and GIFs! They let you slyly get your message across without actually having to really say anything. Plus, a few emojis can really elevate your flirty banter. Adding an emoji or GIF here an there will make the conversation more exciting, so don’t be afraid to get a bit cheeky with it 😉 . But don’t go overboard, if he never sends any back, you may want to ease up.
Another way to flirt with a guy over text without being obvious is to stay up late texting him. It sounds so simple, but everyone gets a little more flirty the later it gets. You can keep the conversation casual or you can see how cheeky you can get 😉 . It might even be a good time to slyly tell him you think he’s cute!
Tease Your Crush
If you’re not worried about being obvious, one of my favorite ways to flirt over text is to tease your crush. Set him up a bit with a text that will leave his imagination running wild. You know, telling him you just got in bed, that you just got out of the shower, or you’re trying to figure out what to wear.
If you’re feeling extra flirtatious, ask him if he wishes he could join you! Then when he responds, play innocent and tell him you didn’t expect him to be so naughty. This will definitely make him feel flustered, so you may have to reassure him with another flirty text.
You want to give your guy a little bit of a hard time here and there, but not too hard. 😉 If he thinks you’re just being mean to him, it’ll just be a turn off.
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