With every relationship, there comes a time when you find yourself looking for ways to give him butterflies and make him fall for you again. It’s natural for all relationships to go through phases of highs and lows. And when you’ve been dating for a while, you have to put in a little extra effort to spark those feelings of when you were first falling in love. So if you’re looking for ways to make your boyfriend fall in love with you again, try these tips!
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How To Give Him Butterflies While Talking
First up is how to give him butterflies while talking, so here we go! No matter what you’re talking about with your boyfriend, you can find ways to give him those feelings of excitement from when you first started dating.
1. Simple Compliment
A simple compliment can go a long way when you want to give your boyfriend butterflies. Even something as simple as saying “you look nice” can make him start to blush. Guys also love to hear when you like their outfit so don’t be afraid to tell him.
2. Fix His Hair
If you want to give him butterflies while talking, fix his hair by gently brushing a piece away from his face. He might get a little nervous and wonder if his hair looks bad, but throw in a compliment along with it and he’ll know you were just doing a little fixing.
3. Pretend To Drop Something
If you want to get his heart racing, pretend to drop something and when you bend over, use him for balance. It sounds cheesy, I know. But especially when you’re out in public it’ll make him get all flustered. And even though it’s an innocent trick, he’ll always be surprised.
How To Give A Guy Butterflies Without Talking
If you want to know how to give a guy butterflies without talking, it’s simpler than you think. You really have to lean into your body language and use it to your advantage.
4. Strong Eye Contact
Giving your boyfriend some strong eye contact can get his heart racing even after years of dating. Any time I look my boyfriend directly in the eyes, he always gets a little nervous (in a good way) and wants to know what I’m thinking. To which I reply “Oh, nothing” with a smirk on my face. It works every time.
5. Playful Touches
There’s not a man in the world who won’t get butterflies when you start throwing in some playful touches. Whether you bump hips, push against his arm, or slowly start to tickle him, he’ll love the extra affection. Plus it’ll show him that you’re in the mood to have a little fun!
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How To Give A Guy Butterflies Over Text
For the times that you’re not together, you’ll want to know how to give a guy butterflies over text. Now is not the time to try to be subtly flirting. It will be quite the opposite.
6. Tease Your Boyfriend
I don’t know what it is, but isn’t so fun to tease your boyfriend? And it’s so easy to drive your boyfriend crazy just by replying with an innuendo here and there. Don’t hold back from joking around and giving him a hard time, but just don’t go after any insecurities.
7. Make Dirty Bets
What is that saying… the couples that make dirty bets together stay together? 😉 Making dirty bets is less about the bet, and more about the rewards and consequences. You’ll definitely be able to give your boyfriend a few butterflies talking about what his rewards (and consequences) will be!
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How To Give Him Butterflies While Kissing
If you want to know how to give him butterflies while kissing then get ready to have some fun. In the beginning of a relationship, the butterflies come naturally when you’re kissing. But over time you have to find things to spice up the routine.
8. Take It Slow
It can actually give him more butterflies when you take it slow. Start with a slow makeout sesh before you let things heat up. The anticipation will build as he tries to figure out where things are leading 😉 .
9. Nibble His Ear
While you’re kissing go ahead and nibble his ear to get his heart racing. If you don’t want to nibble on his ear, breathe heavily (but naturally) into it while he kisses your neck. You’ll give him goosebumps either way.
10. Get A Little Handsy
One of the best ways to give him butterflies while kissing is to get a little handsy, but don’t actually do anything. Drag your fingers across his body and let his mind wander about what you might or might not do. Let the anticipation build until he just can’t hold himself back.
How Do You Give A Man Butterflies In Bed
Last but not least, let’s discuss how do you give a man butterflies in bed. Now, you’re probably thinking this is going to be all hot and heavy. Well sorry to disappoint, because this one might be a little sappy.
11. Hand Placement While Cuddling
Having the right hand placement while cuddling will give him butterflies as he starts to wonder whether you’re just having a cuddle or if it might lead to something more. Whether you lay your hand on his chest or wrap your arm around him, cuddling is one of the best ways to get your man to fall for you all over again.
12. Nestle Your Head
Your man will absolutely love it if you nestle your head into him while you’re laying in bed. This is one of those things that will just melt his heart in an instant. Just be careful not to bonk heads.
13. Wrap Your Leg Around Him
If you wanna give him butterflies, excite him, and melt his heart all at once, then wrap your leg around him while you’re laying in bed. This is definitely one of my boyfriend’s favorite ways to cuddle while we watch movies in bed and he says it still gives him butterflies every time.
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